I’ve been thinking about elephants—in part because my mother
loved and collected them, and I spent Valentine’s weekend (one of her favorite
holidays) two streets over from where she, my Auntie Bea and grandmother Gabby
(whom I never knew) lived during Mom’s childhood. I was in Philadelphia—Mom’s
city—for the annual American Craft Retailers Show, walking her streets and
connecting with a jeweler who uses vintage molds from the late 1800’s as
foundations for her contemporary creations. One of those creations featured an
elephant—not just any elephant, but the exact elephant in a ring I wear often,
a ring that was my grandmother’s, passed down to my mother in her childhood,
and in turn passed down to me when I was about ten years old. Coincidence? I
think not.
I’ve also been thinking about elephants and grandmother/mother/daughter
bonds in part because a dear friend’s two daughters—one of whom I am godmother
for—will have their first babies this year, making her a new grandma twice
over.
One of the reasons I have my own love for elephants is the
way that mother elephants elicit the help of unmated females, who function as
maiden aunts in the raising of the baby elephants. Elephants are matriarchal, and symbolize the strength to
overcome obstacles, something my grandmother did in raising two daughters by
herself after WWI and through the Great Depression. The bond between generations, coupled with the idea of
strength and resiliency, lends itself to subtle visual metaphor. I’ve photographed this idea over time,
and found two more images recently that tell this same story. The dandelion image dates from past springs and summers; the scallop shells lay on the beach
together exactly as you see them pictured—I did not touch them before I
photographed them—and the two trees stood in the snow on my way back home after
the Philadelphia trade show. Beauty and visual stories are everywhere, if our
eyes and hearts are open.
This image speaks to me of the bond between generations.
I was amazed to find these shells, so similarly colored and nestled just as you see them here,
on the beach after recent high winds and heavy seas.
I loved how these two trees stood together in the snow.